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Are you a thinker?

I am.

I sit and “brainstorm” quite often thinking I’m making progress, when all I’m really doing is spinning my wheels and limiting my results.

I felt a nice little pain in my stomach after writing that sentence, but it’s the truth.

I think too much, which is another way of saying I’m a procrastinator…and I hate it.

Procrastination pushes your results farther and farther back and is very maddening (and that’s putting it nicely).

The same thing happens when many people decide they want to get in better shape, lose weight, tone up, or whatever their goal may be.

They make the decision, then search out in hopes to find the “best” program, and the easiest program.

Last summer I had a consultation with someone who made the decision to lose weight, feel better and get stronger.  She came to me while “shopping around” trying to find the best program.  We talked for a while and she went on her way to “think about it” and compare all her research. Read More→

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This is something I’ve shared with my personal clients, and also want to take the time to share it with you because I think it’s that valuable.

It’s not grandiose in the sense of telling you which foods will blast through a bazillion pounds of fat, or leave you with enough energy to jump to the moon and back – both of which are immensely important – rather this is something a bit different.

It’s more “mental” and involves a very simple question…

Are you ready? Read More→

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Hey Hey!

How’s your day going?  I trust it’s going swimmingly!

As I sit here at my desk I’m looking out at sunny skies and a bunch of snow on the ground.  It is kinda pretty…slightly.  The only thing bringing the pretty-factor down is how freakishly cold it is.

I could give you all sorts of metaphors for how cold it is, most of which are rated above PG-13, but I won’t.

Instead I’m going to admit something slightly embarrassing.

I have watched 10 minutes of “The Jersey Shore.”  There I said it.  I’ve seen it and no matter how hard I try, I can’t wipe those images from my mind, nor can I erase some of the names from my memory banks no matter how hard I mentally scrub with steel wool.

There is one little piece of genius I’ve taken from the show and that’s GTL.  I’m fairly certain it stands for “Gym, Tanning and Laundry.”  Genius, I tells ya…Genius.

Sweet Lord I hope I can forget these images sometime soon.

Until then, I’ve turned their acronym into my own.  It’s just as much a piece of gold as theirs, but I think it’s even better because it applies to workouts.

So what’s my own piece of acronym genius?

F.I.A.

What does it stand for?

Form.

Intensity.

Abs.

What does it mean?

Basically it means that when you workout you should always focus on F.I.A.

Let me elaborate just a wee bit because I’m sure I have some folks shaking their heads wondering just what the heck I’m talking about.  And I hope I can redeem myself for spending a fraction of this post on those goobers on that silly show that I will never mention again.

It’s a pretty good assumption that you don’t have much time to spend working out.  If you did, you probably wouldn’t be reading my stuff, unless you just enjoy my witty banter.

When time is the major issue in your workouts, you need to make every minute count.  You can’t go through the motions and expect to achieve great results, or even good results.

You have to be “in” the workout.

To be more specific, let’s break down the F.I.A. idea…

F stands for Form.  You must ALWAYS pay attention to your form.  Always!  This rule really holds true no matter how long your workout lasts, whether it’s 10 minutes or 40 minutes.  If your form sucks, your workout sucks and you will injure yourself.  Maybe not right away, but at some point in the near future you will injure yourself.  It’ll probably be in the form of aching knees and shoulders or a sore back – or all 3.

I’ve even injured myself a time or two due to crappy form.  I developed tendinitis in both knees because I let my ego get in the way when doing squats and didn’t pay close enough attention to my form.  In order to get over it, I had to completely remove any type of squat or lunge from my workout until I was pain free and then I built myself back up with impeccable form.  Now I can drop myself way below parallel when squatting.

If you don’t pay attention to your form your results will also suffer because you’re probably letting gravity do more work than your muscles.

Think of the push-up as an easy example.  If you lower yourself to the floor and maintain control, you are doing it properly.

If, however, you are like many and flop yourself to the floor before immediately pressing your body back up and immediately flop back down to the floor – that’s crappy form and you’re letting gravity do all the work.

Instead you should slowly, and under control, lower your body to the floor.

Is it tougher?  Absolutely.

Will you be able to complete fewer reps?  Yep.  In the beginning anyway.  But once you get things under control, your reps will be back up in no time and you’ll be MUCH stronger for it.

Not only will you get stronger, but you’ll also burn more calories.

Think about it this way.  If you let gravity pull you to the floor rather than controlling your speed, you’re removing HALF of the exercise and are burning half the calories, and maybe less.

That takes us right into the second letter of F.I.A and the I stands for Intensity.

You better make sure you’re working hard in your workouts or your results will show it.

Work hard and achieve awesome results.

Act a weenie and achieve little or no results.

Do you find your mind wandering easily while doing your workout?

Keep your mind in the workout.

Do you find yourself wandering from exercise to exercise like a butterfly flutters between flowers?

Stop acting a weenie and work it.

That’s one of the main reasons I design so many 10-minute circuit workouts.  If you only have 10 minutes to complete your workout, and you care about your results, you HAVE to work intensely in that 10 minutes.  What’s the point if you don’t?

And finally we have the A, which stands for Abs.

You must always concentrate on keeping your abs “braced” while doing your workout.

In the beginning you’re going to spend a lot of time focusing on the abs because you’re not used to it and your abs have kind of gone to sleep because you sit too much and move too little.

However, after a couple weeks, paying attention to your abs will become habit.

Your abs should be involved in EVERY exercise, whether it’s a push-up, plank or lunge and if you don’t pay attention to those abs and keep ‘em braced, you won’t be able to perform intensely or with proper form and your results will suffer.

Make sense?

Alright, so there’s my own little acronym for you to use from now on so don’t forget it.

F.I.A.

FormIntensityAbs.

Focus on all 3 when doing your workouts and your results will skyrocket!

Pay them no heed and your results will be as bad as that stupid show I mentioned earlier.

Have an awesome day and I’ll talk to you soon!

The Fit Dad

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I recently received a pretty cool email from a guy named Bill saying he bought my book a year ago and didn’t do anything with it.

What’s so cool about that?  How do I think a guy telling me he purchased my book and did absolutely NOTHING is cool?

It was the second part of his email that was the cool part.  He said for months he kept telling himself “he’d get around to it” and like most people, he never did “get around to it.”

It wasn’t until he actually went up a pants size that he finally decided to do something about his growing belly and poor lifestyle habits.

He told me he started making small changes and within a week had lost a few pounds and his energy levels were through the roof.

Pretty cool, huh?

So why am I sharing this with you?  Why am I bragging about being the coolest dad-gum trainer around?  Is it because the program I created was out of this world?

I could lie and tell you yes, but the truth and the real reason I’m sharing this is because he finally got fed up and did SOMETHING. (although Fat Loss To Go is pretty killer…)

All too often we allow ourselves to sit idly by and watch our health and pants’ sizes get out of control.

We tell ourselves we’ll change, but just like Bill said “he never got around to it.”

We buy that program with the killer marketing campaign (something with an ‘x’), but never get around to it.

We join the boot camp or health club, but skip workouts and come up with excuses.

We buy a diet book, but it ends up collecting dust amongst the countless other books.

But you know what?

All you need to do to start making positive change is do just one thing…

…and that one thing is something.

You just need to do something.

Don’t allow yourself to succumb to “paralysis by analysis” (I think I stole that from one of hundreds of business books).

Just pick an area and do something.  Something is better than nothing.  Something is better than watching your cholesterol and stomach size shoot into the stratosphere.

Want me to pick something out for you?

Okay, how about fiber.

From now on, I want your primary focus to be on consuming foods that are rich in fiber.

Don’t get caught up in the gobbledy-gook that so many nutrition “experts” want to confuse you with, just focus on fiber.

What foods are rich in fiber?  Vegetables, most fruit, whole grains, nuts and beans are all loaded with fiber.

Amazingly simple and effective.  Focus on fiber and you will see results pretty quickly as long as you’re not perverting those fiber rich foods, but that’s another topic for another day!

Make fiber your “something” and act now.  Don’t put it off until tomorrow.  Just act.

Then in a few weeks pick a new “something” and act on it immediately and before you know it, you’ll be just like Dan.

It really is as simple as that.

What’s your ‘something’ going to be?  Let me know in the comments section below or on Facebook.

Talk to you soon!

And remember…

…Be A Superhero Today!

Ed, aka “The Fit Dad”

P.S. – I’ll be back in the next day or so with some killer nutrition tips as well as some workout videos.  Sorry I’ve been out of the game for so long…

P.P.S. – If you’re finally ready to get off your butt and do something just like Bill did, then you need to get on the same program he’s on – my Fat Loss To Go 10-Minute Fat Loss System designed specifically for busy Super-Dads and Wonder-Moms!  To learn how to finally get the extra fat off AND do it without sacrificing your free time and going on a super-restrictive diet click here.

Workouts, Videos and Weight Loss Tips…Oh My!

Monday, June 28th, 2010

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Hey!  How’s your week going?  Mine’s been crazy busy (finishing up a couple of projects and starting a HUGE new one…), but I still wanted to send you a quick note and I thought I’d do something a bit different with this post.

There's no reason for posting this picture...but I still like it!

I thought I’d share a few links to some new and older articles, workouts and videos that you might have missed.

First up is a newbie.  It’s another quick 4-Minute Workout video.  The link takes you to my YouTube page and if you haven’t subscribed yet, you really should.  Sometimes I don’t let everyone know when I add new workout videos and the only way to see them is to subscribe.

To check it out, click here =>   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQRS6reJcDg

Next up is an article I sent out last week about how weight loss and financial planning are related.  The spam filters HATED it, but it’s a nice little article.

To check it out, click here =>  http://thefitdadsays.com/how-are-weight-loss-and-financial-planning-related/

Another recent article was about 3 very specific questions you need to ask yourself in order to kick-start your fat loss.  Ask them and you’ll be on your way!

To check it out, click here =>  http://thefitdadsays.com/3-questions-to-kick-start-your-fat-loss/

The last one I’ll share with you is a bunch of workouts I did in the month of May.  I know it’s almost July, but the workouts still work and it’s still summer-time and you can still blast a bunch of fat before the end of swimsuit season with these puppies!

To check it out, click here =>  http://thefitdadsays.com/fat-blasting-and-beach-body-ready-workouts-for-may/

That’s all I have for today!

I hope you have an awesome week and if there’s ever anything you’d like me to cover in these articles or videos, shoot me an email to let me know.

Have an awesome day!

Ed

P.S. – I couldn’t help myself…here’s another link to an article showing you how to Bust out of your Weight Loss Plateaus.  To check it out, click here =>  http://thefitdadsays.com/stuck-in-a-rut-need-to-bust-through-your-weight-loss-plateau/

Do I Have Any Weight Loss Secrets?

Tuesday, May 25th, 2010

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Hey!  What’s happenin?

There have been a lot of things going on in my world, including a very exciting event coming up in the next couple of days – my 10-year wedding anniversary to my gorgeous and sexy wife.

We started dating way back in high school and have been inseparable ever since.  It’s pretty cool being married to your best friend and I love her more every day.  We just finished up celebrating with a mini-vacation and left Maren at home. We miss her every time we leave her, but it’s always kinda nice to get away and leave the munchkin at home!

Okay, enough of the mushiness and on to the fitness and diet stuff!

I’ve been receiving more and more questions via email lately (which is awesome) and a common theme seems to come up over and over.  People want to know if I have any secrets.  They may not come right out and ask “Do you have any weight loss secrets?” but it’s usually pretty easy to read between the lines and figure out what they really want.

I can understand the desire to seek out secrets, but to be totally honest I don’t have any secrets – and there really aren’t any secrets to be found…anywhere.

Okay, that’s not totally true.

I do have a couple of secrets that I use on a regular basis to help me lose weight (when I need to) and to keep my fit, strong and trim physique.

But my “secrets” have more to do with “rules” that I hold myself to more than a secret workout technique, secret supplement, or whatever secret weight loss technique you may have hoped I would share.

What do I mean?

I’ll give you a few examples of some of my “rules” (or if you prefer to refer to them as secrets…be my guest)… Read More→

Ten Fitness Commandments Part 1

Friday, March 26th, 2010

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For the past couple of years I’ve had the unique opportunity to write columns for a local publication called “L Magazine.”  It’s an awesome experience getting to share my thoughts on health, fitness and weight loss with an entire city and get the response from clients and non-clients.

I thought I’d share with you my most recent article – it’s a 2-parter so I’ll post the second part next month.  I actually had to tweak it a bit because it was a bit too sacreligious the first time around.  Evidently it sounded like I was comparing myself to Moses a bit too much.  My bad.

Anyway, here’s the article…

One of my all-time favorite movies is “The Ten Commandments.”  Seeing Charlton Heston play Moses is a very moving experience.

My homeboy Moses

My homeboy Moses

I’m lying.

I’ve never seen the movie and come to think of it, I haven’t seen a Heston film.  The most I know about it is that it’s looooong.

The reason I mention the movie is because I’ve come up with a list of my own Ten Commandments.

I hiked my butt up my very own Mt. Sinai (the second floor of my house), and came down with these Fitness Commandments to share with you.

1.  Thou shalt add good stuff, while subtracting bad stuff.

This one is easy.  We eat poorly and don’t exercise enough.  Add more good stuff and subtract the bad stuff.

It really is that simple.

2.  Thou shalt keep it in and tight.

I’m referring to your stomach.  Your stomach muscles are weak and it shows in the way you sit, stand and move.  Always be mindful of your stomach muscles.

I’m not asking you to suck your gut in like someone is taking a picture of you in your bathing suit, rather think of it as keeping your posture in check.  Sit or stand up straight and pull or “brace” your stomach.

You also need to do Planks more often – any of the variations…just do them.

3.  Thou shalt not partake in magic pills or potions.

Moses threw a hissy fit when he came down the mountain and saw people worshipping a golden calf.

I throw a hissy fit whenever someone tells me they’re taking a diet pill, or other “wonder supplement” that comes from the farthest reaches of the earth.

Supplements have their value – I take them every day – but any pill whose marketing tells you it’s the easiest way to lose weight is lying.  If you want to learn more about the supplements I take, click here.

At best, it’s an expensive diuretic and leaves you with less money.

Deep down you know the truth, so listen to your gut and don’t do it.

4.  Thou shalt sleep.

Sleep is probably the most underrated aspect of health (and weight loss).  You NEED to sleep more.  Your body does some pretty amazing things while you’re sleeping, and the less you get, the more you screw it up.

Besides, the Late Late Show isn’t that great and you’ve already seen all the Seinfeld reruns.

5.  Thou shalt move…often.

As a society, we sit way too much.  We sit in our car.  We sit at a desk.  We sit on the couch.  We sit at a table.  Sit, sit, sit.iStockBeachCoupleB

Get off your butt and move around once an hour, preferably every 30 minutes.  Stretch, go for a quick walk, do some push-ups and squats…just do something.

Just like Moses had 2 tablets, I have to cover the remaining Commandments in next month’s issue, so stay tuned lest I go in a Moses-style rage and break the second tablet.

I hope you enjoyed part 1 of this article and I’ll be sure to post the second part next month (hopefully I remember…my brain has been a bit fried lately).

Talk to you soon!

And remember…

…Be A Superhero Today!

Ed

I Can’t Lose Stomach Fat

Monday, September 14th, 2009

I want to share a quick conversation I had with a client last week.

She walked in the door, we exchanged the obligatory “Hey, how ya doin’”, then she said…

“Okay Ed, I know I’ve gotten stronger over the past few weeks.  My clothes fit better in my arms, chest and legs, but I’m not losing weight and my stomach isn’t shrinking.  What the hell is going on?” (A direct quote)

Sound familiar?

It does to me.  I’ve heard it dozens, hundreds, maybe thousands of times over the past several years.

My first response to her was to congratulate her on the progress she’s made in only a few weeks of committing herself to working hard and consistently. Read More→